These are a few worksheets I've made over the years and use as handouts when I give talks or lead workshops. Whether you use them directly as negotiation tools or merely as something to think about, I hope they're useful and/or amusing to you.
Kink Negotiation Worksheet
Sex Brainstorming Worksheet
This one isn't intended to be universal; the sex acts and genitals described herein are peculiar to my relationship with Rowdy, as is the designation of which ones are "Main Courses" versus "Appetizers." However, I'm putting it up here because I've found it's a very helpful negotiation tool to keep a list of some of our go-to activities.
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